............... Thanks heaps lovely ladies, some fab ideas there (Nai, i love the idea of the whiteboard )

Her DD will start 4year old Kinder this year so that will help that she will be in Kinder 4hours x 3days per week ... so i guess the days she has her at home i could take her DD for awhile to play with my DD (only prob her DD is clingy, she won't even stay with her Nan for long so i'm hoping that will change soon ... whenever i see her now i've noticed she sits on my lap more for cuddles).

Anymore ideas please feel free to throw 'em my way as have some time as twins are due August