we have almost 21 yr old son who is disabled a 16yr old son who is girl mad and a 2 yrs son so its ognna be a handful once the twins arrive i am wondering ho wi will find time to get everything done while breast feeding the twins and running after a toddler while recovering from a c section lol

i guess my biggest fear is telling them apart for girls id pierce thier ears but boys???

just feeling very oh i odnt know ive not long finished my diploma in nails and loving it but once the twins are born thats gone and i guess feel damn now there will be no time for me at all...does that sound selfish????