Ok ...

Nappies
Wipes
Bath Stuff (my supply only just ran out .. my boys are nearly 16 months old!)
donations of time ...
swing/exesaucer/jolly jumper .. I wish I had at least one of these!
clip suits (the singlet ones that clip)
singlets
clothes!

In fact .. Everything I got, I pretty much used!

My SIL gave us a voucher to a supermarket, instead of a present .. that was a godsend!