No healthy child ever starved themselves in the presence of food! I concur with what many of the others have said. Feed her when you are home - she will work it out when you are not - for a bit of personal experience I expressed for full time time work from when my son was 6 weeks old until he was 10 mnths old - then I was *over it*. He just had water and a cut lunch when I was away and fed when I was home. As your supply naturally reduces you will not have as many let downs. it’s got to be a compromise between you and your little one. Fully weaning is unlikely to solve all your problems - just give you a whole set of other ones!