girlfriends organised the first one ... I had quite a few offers, so I asked one to do food, one to do the games, one decorations, one the cake, etc.

this time around, for #2 - I still want a baby shower, but I'm planning on asking my sister to organise (but I've got all the games and stuff still written down, so she can just pull out the same things )

as for presents, I wouldn't *expect* anyone to bring a gift, but I think a lot of people still will.