Sorry in advance if this is all over the place.

DH and I got married about a month ago. The day was awesome the lead up to it while stressful was great but it's everything that has followed that makes me want to cry.

I'm not going to go into every detail but there has been a number of issues with one of the B/maids regarding costs etc. Her words to me was that I was ungrateful for everything she did and I should be ashamed of myself for behaving the way i did. If I was so ungrateful I wouldn't have paid for everything that I did (they paid $10 for their dress and wore whatever shoes they wanted - I paid for eveything else) and I wouldn't have spent an extra $130 on her to show my appreciation!!!! I thought this situation was over with and dealth with however, she's still continuing it on and carrying on about it to everyone I know!

Anyway.....

I have since got my wedding photos back and while I love the job the photographer has done - I HATE THEM!! Especially the ones with her in them because all i can think about is how much she has hurt me and how angry she has made me. I cry everytime I look at them because it was never meant to turn out this way. These photos are meant to have happy memories attached not horrible ones.

I'm thinking i'd eventually like to do a renewal of vows ceremony with all the original bridal party minus her so I can have something I can look back on and Love.
I know this sounds really petty now and I should just move on. I just don't know how to do that when everytime I look back on my special photos I feel so angry.

I love my husband with everything I have and I know that this is what the day is/was about and nothing will change that, I just hate the memories I have attached to our special day.

Is there a time when you specifically do a renewal of vows???? What is involved in them??