Is it cold in here? Cause my feet are freezing...

[kelebek]

I have heard it is but as someone who has never gone through it can't really say much more. and I am sure it will all work out. I can see you standing up in the middle of the ceromony holding onto DS1 proudly showing off bump

[ezymay]

I think its normal Lori. I was pretty numb all my wedding day and ppl kept asking is I was going to do a runner!!!! But we have been married nearly 5 years now.
I haven't changed my name though well sort of. I have changed it with medicare and the health fund but that's all. Its a real issue for DH and I really struggle with it. I am attached to my name and am not keen on dh's ...more that I'm not keen on sharing it with some of his family members.

IMO I think kids are more of a committment than marriage, you are in each others lives forever then!!! Without kids you could leave and never have to see each other again.

Sorry I'm not sure that's very helpful???

But I think your wedding will be AMAZING and just the icing on the cake of your lives with the 2 special little ones you've created!!!