But I guess it's those faults that are giving me cold feet... I think i imagined marriage to be perfect and that's what bothering me. He is not perfect. We are not perfect.
Lol, LoriRae, I challenge anyone to show me the perfect husband, wife or marriage
For me - and this has only come with time - the faults & imperfections in each of us is what makes this special.
I know that he knows and loves all of my quirks & faults, and viceversa. And we have had sooo many ups & downs over the years, & issues to work through, some of them really major. The fact that we have done this and come out the other side just makes everything seem sweeter now.
I actually feel more comitted now than the day we got married (there might be something wrong with that? I don't know )

But from what you say... I love the man like crazy. He's my best mate and I can't imagine life without him. I know neither of us are going anywhere, we are in it for the long haul. I accept him with all his faults and he accepts me with mine.
....That right there is as close as you are going to get to the recipe for a 'perfect' marriage...to love each others faults & to laugh together, to be in it for the long haul..you can't ask more than that