Wow they have gumption (using a BB approved word )
I am really surprised that they think it is ok...not something I could do and when I got married I had 6 kids, one who had just got out of hospital after 3mths...we still managed to save and have a really nice small wedding. We did a lot ourselves too.

It really doesn't take much.
Geez, I don't even have the guts to ask *family* for a little money towards Ianto's headstone - something a touch more important than a wedding, in my eyes - and they want it for a wedding?
More than a touch