Yep relaxed and nofuss is the best. We had a morning wedding and informal buffet lunch reception with no set seating, one 3minute speech and no set dances/toasts or anything. The guys wore vests but no suit jackets and the girls hired their dresses. I was soooo relaxed on the day and we had a great time. Everyone told us it was the best wedding they had been to as they could get up and walk around/change table/go outside whenever they wanted. Hope you love your day as much as we did!