We'd had a rough pregnancy, and DH's best friend of a very long time and his wife were just wonderful, always helping us and doing for us and cooking for us, they just seemed like the perfect choice. One day after another long hospital stay she popped around with a big box of baby items - creams, nappies, Lullaby cd's, tissues, wipes - you get the idea!! Anyway, this happened when I was only 5 months pregnant, and I was so overwhelmed by the gesture, I asked them on the spot