Thanks Briggsygirl

We didnt ask because it wasnt our place to, they had the best man and another friend and they both turned it down. and its bad enough that she hasnt even spoken to me about being godmother, but only asked my husband. i have seen her heaps since and she hasnt even brought it up. it just seems very rude and i feel very excluded. this, plus we are trying to tidy up bills and ttc with assistance is expensive! we arent in the best of positions atm. it means i have to do overtime just to pay for it. i feel like writing her a cheque and staying home.......

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thanks for the advice, much appreciated.