Hi Heather,

I would be spewing if I had to fork out that much for being someone's bridesmaid. My two bridesmaid at my wedding didnt pay a cent and I gave them a gift after too. What i see it is that they were doing me a favour, so I wouldnt be expecting them to fork out for anything.

However, I wasnt that strict that they had to wear the same shoes! I bought them the dress which they both picked together, makeup, hair and flowers.

They bought their own accessories and shoes? I really dont understand why all bridesmaids need to wear the same shoes. Surely their beautiful faces is more to look at than their shoes? But hey thats my opinion.

Good luck babe and hope you sort things out soon.