How to politley tell ppl we don't really want commerative stuff for a baptism?

[Trillian]

My suggestion would be the same as Kel's - set up a gift registry somewhere and include with the invite. No matter what you request, there will always be some that will still get you something commemorative though.

[Lolli]

Thanks ladies. Duh, why didn't I think of that? Sleep deprivation kicking in again....