Well after much deliberation, and confusion,anger, hissyfitting etc we have decided to 'elope' without eloping.... just not telling everyone, can just have a nice ceremony and go out for dinner.... have like 30 ppl or less. Just not in the mood to organise a wedding way too stressful. Plus we could really spend the money on other things that we need (like a new lappy for me hehe).

So what would the best wording be for this change??

Thanks in advance