Ooh, Rouge, I want your wedding!! That sounds AWESOME!!
I agree, the idea of a ****tail wedding/reception has always stirred something in me, and the saving on food/misery with fussy eaters etc would suit me down to the ground.
As far as theme, lol probably my usual romantic goth/1940's-50's style stuff - DH isn't really into it but goes along with it to keep me happy - our 'colour scheme' for our wedding was red, black and white and he didn't even moan about the red and black tie I scored from an op-shop... I think he was happy to be allowed to wear his Chucks instead of fancy dress shoes!