had a chat with DP last night about it and basically i am going alone or not at all.

1. he thinks it's rude to take a baby to a wedding
2. he doesn't want DD in some random car seat possibly not fitted properly
3. we can't afford to go as a FAMILY for him to watch DD while i'm at the wedding.

I really don't know what to do, it will be very hard to build up a supply of milk in that time and also to have to PUMP while away will be both annoying and probably a little inconvenient.

I don't want to miss this wedding... Hmmm stupid DP, why can't he understand.

i have until Feb to RSVP, maybe once i have had bub i should start expressing and see how i go.. she will be feeding quite a bit so hopefully i can use that extra supply to build up enough?