I actually think it would do him some good to be alone with the 2 girls, especially when Z will be little.. only as with A he didn't do a lot until now thats she's more 'FUN' lol
I trust him 100% and think it might make him realise my jobs not as easy as he thinks... lol
I know ti sounds horrible and i could NEVER have left A behind at that age and i really didn't want to think about it with Z either but this is a life long friend (literally)... maybe i can convince DP to let me take Z, she wont cost anything... hmmmm
I know what you mean about not leaving them though... i cried when i went in for day surgery when A was 6mths old
ive never heard of anyone objecting to having young babies at weddings and as you said he is a lifelong friend so would be more understanding.
Once Z arrives maybe DP will realise what a hand full two littlies are and be happy for you to take Z so he can spend some quality time with A.
maybe book your flight for you to go - then he can't really back out. leave it til a fortnight or so before you're due to go - and do a day trip away from him - leave early am, dont get back til after Z is in bed at night - see how you BOTH cope being apart
i'm sure your friend would expect Z there - i certainly would if it were my wedding! (for interstate people, or even those travelling at all, i expected kids there!)
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