We have Dj's 2nd birthday comming up - its also going to be a fairwell type thing for us too.

now i need help with the wording because rather then gifts for dj (as he's got enough toys/clothes/books) we want people to donate to the flood appeals ( be it Vic, NSW or QLD) but i need some help in making it "nice" i've got thus far:

to___
You've been invited to DJ's 2nd birthday and our fairwell bash.
Please the only presace we want is yours. the only gift we ask for is any money you may have spent on a gift for DJ is donated to the flood appeals, a gift that keeps on giving.

Or

To ____
You've been invited to DJ's 2nd birthday and our fairwell bash.
Please no presance other then yours as we would rather you give a gift that keeps on giving. any money you may have spent towards or on a birthday gift for DJ please donate it to a flood appeal. so children who have nothing left can be given something back.

any changes/otherways of doing it? thank-you girls.