I am not offended that i was not invited to her wedding i just thought i was a bit over the top to ask for money!!! the invitations says
" Instead of bringing a present, all you have to do is bring an envelope or card containing money as a gift. This money will be added to the usual credits!!"

I just think that it is a bit rude!!!!!
I have already said that i would go, so how much should i give her i was thinking only $5 or $10 because honestly i would rather buy something for my house and then she can enjoy the benefits fromt he amount that everyone spends!!!

And yes the bride is aware of the invitation!!!