I was invited to a friends kitchen tea which is a going to be a tupperware party!!! I am not invited to the wedding and the kitchen tea everyone is asked to bring a donation in an envelope for the bride to buy herself some sort of tupperware!! Then we are asked to buy something and then she will recieve all the benefits from the party!!! I feel a little offended that we have to give a money donation to the bride for her to buy herself something from the party!!! What do you think? Or am i just being silly!!!!! I would feel horrible inviting people to my kitchen tea etc if they are not being invited to the wedding?? I am not offended that i was not invited as i know how expensive wedding are these days.

Thanks