Well, all I have asked for is to go shopping (need some spring/summer clothes), or a day at a spa or something... apparently no one will give me something unless I can keep it forever... which to me seems silly because I'd rather something I can enjoy now, than just have it sit on my cabinet looking at me.

I don't want a party, as I'm not a party girl, I don't drink alcohol, I really woldn't enjoy myself around a bunch of drunken people!!!! I just want to go out for a nice dinner or lunch or you know I'd reallylike to just have fish and chips on the beach at dusk with Shel... but apparently thats not good enough. Even MIL is saying "No, you have to do something wild!!!!"

I'm was just wondering if anyone did anything tame or even boring (though boring is fine by me) for their 21st, so I can say "look, see, you don't HAVE to be a drunken fool on your 21st!!!".