OK So I am very honored to be my sisters maid of honour for her wedding in feb 2010. She deserves every happiness and I want her day to be wonderful, easy and most importantly stress free so I have number of questions I am hoping you lovely ladies can help me with.

I will start with questions about the BIG DAY

So for the brides
what did your maid of honour do that you really appreciated?
What did they do that you wish they hadn't?
What did you wish they did do but didn't?

For the bridesmaids... I am quitely freaking out, not really sure what I am suppose to do on the day.

Am I suppose to personally oversee details like the flowers and cake at the reception? how the tables are set up at the table?
What should I have in my emergency kit for the bride, what sort of makeup etc....


Please any help from anyone would be appreciated. Thanks in advance