Kylz, that's so difficult. I hope it's your dream day regardless of who you choose x

My mum would have walked me down the aisle but she passed away about 10 years ago, so my brother did. My dad is in the picture but he was abusive when we were younger and I just couldn't have done it. I loved having my little bro, it was really special. But you know what, I would have walked down on my own and been so proud to do that too. My buddy got married on the weekend and she her and her man walked down together - I thought that was lovely.

I guess another option to keep in mind would be a really close friend or someone who has become your family. Family doesn't have to mean a blood relation - some of my warmest memories are of mates that have really stood by me through everything - they're my family too.