putting back a wedding? advice?

[AnnaBelle]

baby_blip Congratulations !!! What an amazing time for you and your fiancee

I changed our wedding date not becuase of a baby - but because we felt like we rushed ourselves and wanted to enjoy our engagement and the lead up to the wedding alittle longer - for us it was lovely and that extra six months for us "just felt right"

So all I can say to you baby_blip - is go with your gut feeling on what is right for you and your fiancee and NO ONE ELSE!!!

I have seen friends in your position and one went ahead with the wedding as planned and another put it off until bub was a bit over one year old. Both had lovely weddings and it was the right thing for them in each instance.

So talk it out with your fiancee and both decide together on what you want to do - a wedding is a special day in your life and you will never get it back so make the right decision for you both.
Your first baby is such a special event something you want to enjoy every minute of

Now I am going to jump off the fence for a second and say "postpone the wedding...enjoy your longer engagement...have your wedding planned like it was going to happen on the original date ie: get it all organised..but just have it a little later than originally planned...enjoy your baby ..."

Back on the fence...do what feels right for you and your fiancee!!

[visitor1]

We had the exact same problem. I fell Pregnant in March 06 with DD1....our wedding was planned for Sept 30 and around then i would have been around 35 weeks along....we figured it was going to be very hard on me so we changed the date.....we bought it closer and changed it to July 8 instead. At the tiome of the wedding i was 19 weeks and it was a good time...