Your weddings sound perfect. I think I have decided to not have a bridal party, just guests, I'd probably have my close friend take my flowers, and DF can have his mate hand him the rings, or he could have the rings himself. I've decided on plain wedding bands, that's enough. My engagement ring is four figures, so that's plenty! I think we could have the reception at a restaurant or one of the really good pubs in town, and have everyone pay their own. Not sure yet. The date isn't set until December, but January or February is more likely. I'm trying to spread things out over time so its not a mad dash. We'll see how that turns out later!