well she ended up calling me to tell me a relative had dropped out due to illness but unfortunately Lachlan was teething and had been very miserable at the time so we declined. The wedding is this weekend and just I'm going but now we have another RUDE dilemma.

I'd spoken with a friend from high school (we'll call her A) and she said that we should all put some money in together and make it a nice bundle so I was like great and I'd told some people (lets call them Z) and I'd assumed A told some people too. But then I heard from Z that the others had brought a present and that A had put in on it and he was going to as well. So then I called the person who had organised it and told them that myself and another friend would like to contribute and they said well we already bought it (it wasnt something very exciting) so I said to them that I would buy something on behalf of us to contribute as well. So I did that... went out in the pouring rain with bubby to get it. Called them to tell them I get it. WELL... they got A to call me to tell me that I couldnt contribute as the person who organised it and another person had bought it especially and only let A go in it because she was overseas. I said to A well Z told me and he's in it too and A was like well I know nothing about it. Isnt it ridiculous snobbery... wouldn't you think these people would have grown up since high school? I mean arent people supposed to get over their stupid little cliques?!.

I was really upset after this and my partner heard all about it... as I pointed out... I dont get a lot of money... I gave up getting my hair done and buying some clothes to go to the trouble of buying these... Half of me wants to swear at them but I will try and show some restraint for the sake of my friends wedding... it is her day after all and I am so happy for her!!. Half of me thinks maybe she just invited them to say HA!! look at me now!!. Tell you what none of them will be getting an invite to my wedding (apart from the friend who's getting married)... thats for sure!!.