Ooooh great advice! Heather, love the idea of the marquee in the gardens! We too have a friend who is a photographer, we have seen his wedding stuff and it is gorgeous, so he has offered to take care of that

I have another question; I was speaking to someone IRL about having a gift registry, nothing huge, just omens things we need around the house as we have just moved into a new home etc. Anyway, she seemed to think this was a bad idea, as ''it's not like a 'real' wedding when you're 35'' with a nice reception, big venue etc, and therefore it would be rude to have a registry. I have no idea about wedding etiquette, is that true?