hi I like the bottom one two, You could always combine them.

Fantastic list amysarah85. I agree.
My comments

Book Venue (You've already done that)
Decide on Guest List (We had a list of rules as our list had to be below 100)
Hire Photographer (Look at lots, see examples of their work and makes shure you get a garentee of the photographer who will be showing up.)
Hire Videographer (You've already got this)
Send out Invitations (Usually 6-8 weeks before and 12 weeks for interstate and international) I made my own, I figured that people tend to throw them out so I bought hand made paper on e-bay. Printed on them myself, and added a pressed autumn leaf with spray adheasive. all up cost me $25
Decide on a menu With the venue. Remember to collect peoples dietry requirements. I had a vegetarian celiac who was pregnant. (She couldn't eat very much of what I was orriginaly going to offer.)
Decide on a cake,( mmm mine was a lemon tart that got served as dessert.)
Decide on entertainment (DJ, Live Band etc)
Select an MC to run the evening, they also pay people and deal with any miss haps that might (won't) arise.
Pick wedding songs for dances etc ( Father/Daughter, Bridal Waltz, Cake Cutting)
Choose who will be giving speeches and inform them of the order, length etc
Really important to write a sheduale to give to your caterer, venue, band and the MC.
Also think table centre pieces I had 6 candles on different heights and two kin proteas. with river stones. It cost $15 per centre piece.

guest Name tags, I just had a list for each table and let them pick their own seat on the table. That way I didn't have the hassle of placing them.

I didn't send out keep this date free cards, hire a wedding planner or do Guest gifts. (I did get them to take all the flowers, what was I going to do with 13 bunches while I was in NewZealand tor 2 weeks.0