With my other 3 children I have gone at 38-39 weeks due to my BP likes to rise at the end of all pgs so i get induced.

If I had no popped, nope sorry as selfish as it sounds I would not be going. My last labor was 35min and I would be mortified if I went into labor on/at her big day.

Its more hubbies friend then mine so I would like him to go, but as I said it all depends. I guess the safest option is to say no to reception and hope we can make the ceremony.