I loved planning my wedding, and would love to do it all again!
We discussed what sort of wedding we wanted, but we both already knew that we wanted it to be fun and relaxed, not too traditional. As in, we didn't do things for the sake of tradition if we didn't want to. We didn't have a bridal party - my BF and FIL were the witnesses. I wasn't given away (too much drama) so DH met me halfway down the 'aisle'. I wore a red dress (always wanted to!). It was a ****tail-type function, but good fun and relaxed. Lots of food, lots of drink, and we partied 'til we were ready to leave, no one kicked us out. Lots of good music (helps that my brother is a muso).
The best bit of advice I can give you is to enjoy every minute of it! Accept that things may not be 'perfect' on the day, but at the end of the day, as long as you end up married, you have accomplished what you set out to achieve!
My DH and I had the most wonderful day, we still talk about how good it was now. Just relax, go with the flow and ENJOY!
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