Hi Jen

My DH & I are pretty much the same - only I had been married once and brought my DS with me!

We got married in Jan this year - and very much wanted my son, Luke, to be involved. We spoke to our celebrant about this and made it certain that we wanted the vows to be 3 ways - between the three of us - and Luke actually had to say 'I do' to some vows - and DH had to take vows - both to Luke to look after him, and also as a promise to take care of his mum (me!) forever....

They were just beautiful, and very perfect for us - DH & I have been together since Luke was 18 months old, so he has been his Dad his whole life... and we've always been a family.


Our wedding was like what yours sounds like its going to be - and almost everyone thought it was the loveliest service they had ever been to.

I can give you our celebrants details if you like - he had stacks of different vows for different circumstances (yours is different as DH is Lukes step father).. or I can PM you what we used for our service - better not post it, as they were part of our celebrants service...

PM me if you want any details