My DD is going to be the only kid at a no-kid wedding in a few weeks! SHe's the flower girl and has her own invite though. I was quite edgy about it actually because i can't predict how she'll behave and the bride doesn't want kids because she knows a few whose parents tend to say "Oh look at him wrecking that!" but don't DO anything and she says she has faith in me that i won't be like that (!? lol).

I would expect to be able to take a BFing infant to a wedding, up to about a year or so, after which you could probably let them have other food and just a big feed when you get back, but TBH i'm not sure i'd go to a wedding i couldn't take my kid to. I really don't "get" the omission of children at an event which is supposed to mark the joining of families. As if kids weren't part of (or perhaps even the POINT of) the family. But each to their own i suppose - i've never actually been invited to a wedding at which DD wasn't welcome!

Bx