everyone seems to really have loved every thing about there big day. Dont get me wrong im happy more so that we are married but not so much about the day.
DH and i had 3 kids at the time one just 5 weeks old we didnt have a lot of money and didnt want to ask the inlaws for to much ( another story) so we did everthing outselves in vites ect we had about 100 people alot i know but alot of it was kids we got married at a local park lovley no decoration required not that i had time becouse i and a few good family and friends had to get the hall ready thats right everything from putting the table and chairs up setting tables plates ect fill the fridges the list goes on i was at my most depressed when i had to clean the loos we didnt have help from inlaws becouse sis inlaw was flying in from canada with internet boyfriend no one had meet before and it was more important for mil to see to them than her own son on his wedding day pretty sad alot of things going on there anyway having set the hall up we went home to feed kids shower that race to get hair and make up down only to find out there was no money left in the bank so i had to borrow off my best friend. 1/2 hr on hair less in makeup and back home to dress kids they were to young to have as bridesmaids ect and the eldest didnt want to do it that really upset me not that we could really afford to buy dresses for them any way so i put the dress on and you know when so watch in movies the dress is tight yep that happend to me we managed photos you say nope no photos by a pro any way we just had friend and family take photos needless to say not one photo is good enough to put on the wall as i needed a tan ( bra marks ) i look fat the dress was all wrong. But you know the reception was a blast the food was great we had a friend cook for $10 a head yep that s right and it was great the cake was great made by a family member who does this for a living and if i do say so myself shes great 3 layers orange chocolate and white pepperment. It was hard with the kids so little friends helped out heaps when the mil let them, we danced to silverchair then when everyone left we were left to clean up alot more dramas went on god bless inlaws but all in all it was geat all my friends and family loved it the kids had a ball i just wish in hind sight that i had waited for all the kids to be old enough to be flower girls ect i get upset at times and when the sis inlaw says that when she marries again ( internet boyfriend in the reg office) she willhave the whole shebang and say that she will have my girls i get mad i want them to be there for me first not here would it be weird if we did it all again i would love to have it at a beach
kittykat