I'd love a picnic, honestly - that's very ashlea like - but you just can't count on the weather, so now we're going to do a spitroast type thing. It's also very us - when friends come and visit ash n ant we have a roast, and mudcake - or when ashlea had easter at her place, there was a roast, and three million desserts... i think it just "suits". I didn't really know what a ****tail party was but it's definitely not for us...

thanks for the info abb34!! thats really helpful, will keep you in mind for when i need to quiz someone!

ETA: Kitt3n there's not really much around here or it might have worked for us. I'll probably be doing the tunes as well, although im wondering if our alternative taste is going to be too much for a wedding I like the thought of a semi-punk themed wedding but i just can't part with classy either
Love the idea for the mummy partying, good one!!