I am very lucky to have a priest for a brother so my DD's baptism was really special. She was baptised by her uncle in the church we attend and were married in during a private ceremony. It was a beautiful day. We then had a BBQ lunch following it at our home. That was really hard work so I won't be doing that this time. I'll just have an arvo tea or something like that but as far as the ceremony goes i wouldn't change a thing.