Pretty much the whole thing Keike. Spending mega bucks to look like a "princess" (blugghhh) meringue, the dress being white to denote the bride's "purity" (which is usually a moot point anyway), the almost always overpriced dress usually being totally functionless and almost aways never able to be worn again..... I guess it stems from my feeling that some people spend too much time worrying about the wedding and not enough considering the marriage.

I guess I am a wedding scrooge