I don't have one... my fingers are way too short haha... I got a nice bead for my pandora bracelet instead..my idea and I got a fancier one than I'd normally get.
I wear mine on my ring finger and same deal - wedding, engagement and then eternity.
It did look like a lot at first but now I am used to it and I like the way it looks. My wedding and engagement ring look funny to me now without my eternity ring.
DH bought my eternity ring and joked there was a diamond for each child we were going to have ... it has NINE diamonds in it. No flippin way!
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