I don't have one... my fingers are way too short haha... I got a nice bead for my pandora bracelet instead..my idea and I got a fancier one than I'd normally get.
I wear mine on my ring finger and same deal - wedding, engagement and then eternity.
It did look like a lot at first but now I am used to it and I like the way it looks. My wedding and engagement ring look funny to me now without my eternity ring.
DH bought my eternity ring and joked there was a diamond for each child we were going to have ... it has NINE diamonds in it. No flippin way!
Mine is on my wedding finger. My eternity and wedding bands are the same (white gold with channel set princess cut diamonds) but they are quite thin bands, as is my engagement ring. All three are the same width (made by the same jeweler purposely). My engagement ring is a solitaire so it sits between them. My eternity ring would look weird on it's own IYKWIM
I'm still waiting for my eternity ring and if I ever get one it would be wedding ring, then engagement ring, then eternity ring. Currently I have my grandmother's engagement ring, then my wedding ring then my engagement ring (in that order so that grandma's ring doesn't fall off coz it's a bit bigger than the others, and also it doesn't sit flush with my engagement ring).
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