the only thing that majorily went wrong on my wedding day is that I turned up - I should have gone with gut instinct and not shown up, don't get me wrong I loved the guy - I was just in the totally wrong headspace to get married at that point in time

Everything will be fine - I went to the microsoft site and downloaded some wedding templates for things like photo checklists (for photographer so they know the type of photos to take), emergency kits for the brides etc.