So we have a wedding coming up in 3 weeks time and they have stated on their invite not to bring a gift other than our presence. We went to a wedding earlier this year where they did the same thing, so we didn't take a gift and lots of other people did so we felt cheap. Granted at the last wedding it was on an island where we had to stay over night and pay for transport over and it cost quite a bit, so I didn't feel as bad. This time I am a bit unsure as to what to do.

So what you you girls reckon? This is from a couple who came to our wedding, or the bride did, and although I can't off the top of my head remember what she bought I am sure that she did. So to buy or not to buy???