I'm one of those people who hates being asked for a cash gift, although I do note that you have also given the option of gift ideas from someone. Just a suggestion, what about setting up an account with a travel agent? I have been to a couple of weddings where this has been done and I personally feel much happier contributing money which I know will be going towards a honeymoon... Not a big night at the pub and the pokies like my cousin did with her wedding cash!