For our wedding we had the option of a small gift register with a variety of prices (for those who prefer to buy a gift or wanted to buy something as a group) and a wishing well. We had been living out of home for over 10 years and living together for about 3 years. When we sent out thank you cards we put a photo of the cabinets we had made out of recycled timber in with it to show what their money had contributed towards. I LOVE my cabinets and we wouldn't have been able to afford them for ages without the help.