Ya just try ya best!

I work full-time as a supervisor to 10 staff, just starting a double Diploma and DH is a SAHD. I'm also on call for work (if the security system goes off - I get called to go in and check it out - 24/7).

I don't have a plan - we split the cooking about 50/50 (DH also has his own business to run - part time) and the only 'me' time I get is surfing the net for an hour or so while DH gets DS to sleep (after bath). That's my BellyBelly and FB time (and at the moment - it's my Nappy Hunt time! )

Bedtime is usually more like midnight (10.30 is an early night!) and the only thing DH and I do together is watch TV/DVD's and go for the occassional walk.

I make sure I spend quality time with DS on the weekends - and it's Mummy's job to do the bath stuff - so I get a good 1/2 hour with him playing then *every night*.

I also do all the washing (by choice) and we're in cloth - so there's a lot!

Lucky for me I don't have any hobbies or anything (except reading the occasional crime book! - eats into the sleep time), but I manage ok.

As long as you leave work at work and home at home - ya just manage! Good luck!