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It's not appropriate and I would politely and non-confrontationally (if that's a word) say to him "I don't think that it's appropriate for you to comment on my appearance at work" and leave it at that. If he continues, take it to your manager and say that you have tried to address it yourself but it hasn't stopped and it makes you feel uncomfortable.
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As above, but also start documenting things. When and what you told him, his response and if he continues to make comments, what he says, when and if anyone else is around.
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Ewww.
I think the other women have given you great advice.
I hope you can make it go away soon.
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not nice at all.
You shouldn't feel uncomfortable at work at all. It is good that you have spoken to your manager about it and I would definitely say to your co-worker that him commenting on what you wear makes you feel uomfortable. You could do it with the other girls if you don't feel comfortable by yourself. Just make sure he knows that the 3 of you are serious in your requests for him to stop.
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This is great advice, completely agree with this and all other responses.
It's not cool and has to stop.
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Is he doing it in a downgrading way or in a sexual way (or both). Is he impeccably dressed all the time?
Just thinking if you can make a smart comment back to put him in his place?
There ways has to be one pita in the work place! You certainly shouldn't have to feel uncomfortable. What a creep!
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