I wonder these same things when I think about when we are finally blessed with our family.

I think if you're DH has said that it's doable, you should do it. It sounds like you need to focus on yourself... Spend somas time with your beloved little bubba and perhaps give your notice now, and maybe even get a chance to spend some time with DH before he begins his travel.

Sounds like you wont regret the decision. Sure, you'll have to tighten the belts, but it'll be worth it in the long run.

I guess the worst thing that could happen would be that it doesn't work and you have to reevaluate...there are always options to consider :-) perhaps even get a better job that isn't so demanding :-)

HTH *hugs*