Thanks for the messages above!
You are probably right that I am imagining a very easy-to-handle baby. So, I will start discussing the alternative to work from home, and how/where to express milk at the office.
And yes, my husband is fine to stay at home.. but any shared scenario is a lot better, for both of us.

I'll be re-reading your comments above over the next few weeks...
Finally, I am getting somewhere - Thanks again!