I agree completely. Maybe my post wasn't worded well enough (or maybe we are on the same page lol) but I hope it didn't come across as though I was saying that men's and women's skills she be defined as better or worse than the other. More so complimentary. Just like any relationship irrespective of gender.

And I don't think approaching any situation as "well I am specific gender therefore I'm better at this than you" is any way helpful. And I don't think competitiveness in gender specific way is ever helpful. But I think we as people, and in this instance I was being specific to women, should be able to applaud our differences rather than seeing men's traits as negatively oppressive or women's as negatively passive.

And I find it exciting that people are starting to see this.