Hi all, sorry to worry you about my fight. We have pretty much made up and tried to resolve the issue (in the space of 10mins but it's better progress than we have ever made).

Snowy, I can understand, the reason DH and I were fighting is over money, so it can really affect a relationship. Good luck working out what is best for your wonderful family, I know you will work something out.

Thanks for everyones concerns, I am just desperately searching for work and until then Chris will work, which he wants to do anyway. He is awsome (awwww!).

Jess