Hi girls, hope you're all well. Bye Bon, see you in the next forum soon! Hey Kerrie, how exciting to see bub in the u/s being so active! Snowy, glad to hear Wolf is on the mend. Tegan, sounds like Lily is loving the solids, that's great!

Thanks heaps for your advice girls. Christy, the books are a great idea. I think being around other involved fathers would be great for DH - the guys he works with who have kids didn't really have much to do with them as babies, so they are not at all sympathetic. Anyway, we had a big discussion on how to manage things, as Kaleb has been getting more and more unsettled over the past 4 weeks. Took him to the doctor to rule out any medical causes, then yesterday we had a mothercraft nurse come over. She was here for 3 hours and we went through everything with her - she really seemed to know her stuff, and was very reassuring. So we are going to try things her way for a week and see if it works. But at least DH and I agreed that the most important thing for Kaleb is a happy home and loving parents, so we are determined not to keep arguing!